Strive to be a powerful girl

A beautiful painting depicting a mesmerizing lady overlooking a marvelous lake by Chen Jie, picture from http://www.wallcoo.com

Regardless of our own property or social role assignment, girl gives people the feeling is always weak and need to be protected.

Some girls are agreeing with this view, I have to say that different people choose different way. But in my opinion, as a girl, we need to strive to be a powerful girl.

Many girls always complain about their life, almost everything, especially about their boyfriend or husband. But I want to say that remember one thing and keep in your heart that is do everything for yourself, you don’t need do for other people, because do everything that you want or you like, then you will not complain. Remember that is you want or you like and most important thing is do everything for yourself.

There is no absolute fairness in our life. Fortunately, there is relative fairness still in our life. Therefore, don’t complain or think the life is unfair for you when you are under a lot of pressure, just because you get more pressured than others, doesn't mean your the only one.

When we encounter any difficulties in our life, we shouldn’t be pessimistic and world-weary. We shouldn’t scare to start again and again at anytime when we are losing in our life. Because we don’t know that maybe next new starting point is the road can let us leading to success.

To learn forgive by practicing forgiveness. Everyone has different difficulties, so don't expect others or give them high expectations. Let yourself become a little more peaceful, more liberal and more tolerant.

As a girl, we must be financially independent. Because only economically independent girls are eligible to talk about other things. We should strive for the opportunity of study and tourism when we are 15 year old to 25 year old. 25 year old to 35 year old, we should work hard and to actively pursue further studies. Start saving money for our own material and spiritual life. Make achievements and enjoy it. 

Something lost is lost, we don’t need feel regret. Because maybe that is never belongs to you. In real life no matter what mishap, you can think every mistake is your own mistake. We don’t need blame others. Only one thing we need to do that is get experience and knowledge from the mistake.

Remember that we need to always keep innocence, but not means childish. Besides, keep the romance also is important for girls. Romance is a self-cultivation and a life style. Romance also is an attitude, we don’t need care about we are young or old, we are single or married.

At last, we need to find our own joys of life by ourselves. Nobody needs to make your life happy or do some special things for you. That is not their responsibility. Girls, let us remember that do whatever we want for ourselves, be independent and love ourselves.